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Gay marriage legal in six states
By Christine Vestal, Stateline.org Staff Writer
Friday, May 16, 2008
Until 2004, same-sex couples couldn’t wed anywhere in the country. Now, gay marriage is legal in Massachusetts, Connecticut, Iowa, Vermont, Maine and most recently New Hampshire.
Despite these historic strides by the gay rights movement, though, the United States is still a nation divided over whether to redefine marriage.
The California Supreme Court on May 26 upheld the state’s voter-approved constitutional ban on gay marriage, but ruled that some 18,000 same-sex couples who wed before Proposition 8 took effect would still be married under state law.
Twenty-nine other states have enshrined voter-approved prohibitions blocking same-sex marriage in their state constitution as a way to keep state judges from overturning the bans.
In polls, a majority of Americans still oppose full marriage rights for same-sex couples, though the margins are narrowing.
The Northeast is growing as a stronghold of government recognition of same-sex relationships, with legal wedlock in five states -- including Vermont as of Sept. 1, 2009, and Maine as of Sept. 16, if the law is not suspended because of a voter movement to repeal it, and New Hampshire as of Jan. 1, 2010. In the same region, Maine, Connecticut, New Jersey and the District of Columbia also offer legal alternatives known as civil unions and domestic partnerships. New York and Rhode Island recognize out-of-state marriages of gay partners.
On the West Coast, California, Oregon and Washington offer same-sex couples all state-level marriage benefits under domestic partnerships laws. Nevada and Hawaii have domestic partnership laws that offer some, but not all marriage benefits.
Iowa is the first heartland state to recognize gay marriage, effective April 24, 2009, following a unanimous state Supreme Court decision April 3.
Same-Sex Marrige History
1993
Hawaii Supreme Court rules the state must show a compelling reason to ban same-sex marriage and orders a lower court to hear a case seeking the right of same-sex couples to marry.
(May)
1995
Utah Gov. Mike Leavitt (R) signs into law the first state Defense of Marriage statute, which stipulates that Utah does not have to recognize out-of-state marriages that violate state public policy.
(March)
1996
President Bill Clinton signs into law the federal Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), which upholds states' rights to ban same-sex marriages and to refuse to recognize such marriages performed elsewhere.
(September)
1998
Hawaii voters approve a state constitutional amendment reserving the right to define marriage to the Legislature.
(November)
Alaska voters approve a constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage.
(November)
1999
California legislature enacts first domestic partnership law, granting same-sex couples some of the benefits granted to married couples. (April)
Vermont Supreme Court rules that the state Constitution guarantees same-sex couples the same rights to marriage as heterosexual couples. However, the court leaves it up to the Legislature to decide how to provide marriage rights and benefits to same-sex couples.
(December)
2000
Vermont Gov. Howard Dean (D) signs a civil union law, making Vermont the first state to provide all of the state-level benefits of marriage to same-sex couples.
(April)
Nebraska voters approve a constitutional ban on same-sex marriage. (November)
2001
Seven same-sex Massachusetts couples file a lawsuitafter being denied marriage licenses.
2002
Nevada voters give final approval to a constitutional ban on same-sex marriage. Voters first approved the ban in 2000, but state law requires a majority vote in two consecutive election years to amend the constitution.
(November)
2003
Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court, the state’s highest court, rules the state constitution guarantees equal marriage rights for same-sex couples.
(Nov. 18)
2004
New Jersey Gov. James McGreevey (D) signs a domestic partnership law granting same-sex couples certain rights, such as hospital visits.
(Jan. 12)
Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court reaffirms its decision and specifies that only marriage rights — not civil unions — would provide equal protection under the state constitution.
(February)
Massachusetts Legislature holds a constitutional convention to consider amending the state constitution to limit marriage to one man and one woman. The measure fails to pass.
(February)
President Bush announces support for federal constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage.
(Feb. 24)
Massachusetts Legislature votes to amend the state constitution to ban same-sex marriage but allow civil unions. Legislature must approve the measure again by 2006 before amendment can go to statewide vote.
(March)
Massachusetts begins marrying same-sex couples. (May 17)
Voters in 13 states — Missouri, Louisiana, Arkansas, Georgia, Kentucky, Michigan, Mississippi, Montana, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Oregon and Utah — approve constitutional amendments banning same-sex marriage.
(August through November)
2005
Kansas voters approve constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage.
(April)
Oregon's Supreme Court nullifies nearly 3,000 marriage licenses issued to same-sex couples in 2004 in violation of state law.
(April 14)
Connecticut Gov. M. Jodi Rell (R) signs bill authorizing civil unions for same-sex couples, effective Oct. 1.
(April 20)
California Supreme Court issues first-of-its-kind ruling recognizing the co-parenting rights of same-sex couples.
(August)
California state Assembly approves Senate-passed bill to legalize same-sex marriage, but Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger (R) vetoes it.
(September)
Massachusetts Legislature defeats proposal at second constitutional convention to amend the state constitution to ban same-sex marriage but allow civil unions.
(September)
Texas voters approve constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage.
(November)
2006
Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court upholds a 1913 state law banning out-of-state couples from marrying in Massachusetts if the marriage is illegal in their home state.
(March)
Alabama voters approve constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage.
(June)
New York Court of Appeals, the state's highest court, rules that the state constitution does not guarantee same-sex couples equal access to the rights and privileges of marriage.
(July 6)
Washington state Supreme Court rules that the state constitution does not guarantee same-sex couples equal access to the rights and privileges of marriage.
(July 28)
New Jersey Supreme Court rules that the state constitution guarantees same-sex couples all of the legal benefits of marriage but stops short of legalizing same-sex marriage.
(Oct. 25)
Voters in seven states — Idaho, Colorado, South Dakota, South Carolina, Tennessee, Virginia and Wisconsin — approve constitutional amendments banning same-sex marriage.
(Nov. 7)
Arizona becomes the first state to reject at the ballot box a state constitutional amendment banning gay marriage and other benefits for unmarried couples.
(Nov. 7)
New Jersey Gov. Jon Corzine (D), signs law permitting same-sex couples to enter into civil unions, granting the same state benefits conferred on married couples.
(December)
2007
Rhode Island Attorney General Patrick C. Lynch issues legal opinion advising state to recognize same-sex marriages performed in Massachusetts.
(Feb. 21)
Washington Gov. Christine Gregoire (D) signs law creating same-sex domestic partnerships starting July 22, 2007. The law, which provides limited marital rights, also applies to senior heterosexual couples.
(April 22)
Oregon Gov. Ted Kulongoski (D) signs law creating same-sex domestic partnerships starting January 1, 2008. Like California's statute, the law confers all state-level marital rights. (May 9)
New Hampshire Gov. John Lynch (D) signs law creating same-sex civil unions. (May 31)
Massachusetts lawmakers uphold the state's court-imposed gay marriage law, protecting it from constitutional ban for at least five years.
(June 14)
Maryland Supreme Court rules that same-sex couples do not have a constitutional right to marry.
(Sept. 18)
2008
Michigan Supreme Court rules that state’s ban on gay marriage prohibits state and local governments and public universities from offering health benefits to partners in same-sex relationships.
(May 7)
California Supreme Court rules the existing state same-sex marriage ban is unconstitutional.
(May 15)
California begins performing same-sex marriages.
(June 16)
Connecticut Supreme Court rules 4-3 that the state constitution guarantees same-sex couples the right to marry.
(Oct. 10)
Arizona and Florida voters approve constitutional amendments banning same-sex marriage.
California voters approve Proposition 8, overturning the Supreme Court’s ruling in favor of gay marriage and amending the state constitution to prohibit it. (Nov. 4)
Connecticut begins performing same-sex marriages. (Nov. 12)
2009
Iowa Supreme Court rules 7-0 that the state constitution guarantees same-sex couples the right to marry.
(Apr. 3)
Vermont Legislature overrides veto by Republican Gov. Jim Douglas, enacting law that legalizes same-sex marriage. The first-in the-nation statute replaces an existing civil union law, effective Sept. 1. (Apr. 7)
Maine Gov. John Baldacci (D) signs legislation legalizing same-sex marriage. The law takes effect on or about Sept. 16. (May 6)
California Supreme Court upholds Proposition 8, a voter-approved constitutional amendment that overturned the same court’s 2008 ruling in favor of gay marriage and amended the state constitution to prohibit it. (May 26)
Nevada legislature overrides veto by Republican Gov. Jim Gibbons, enacting a domestic partnership law for both same-sex and different-sex couples. (May 31)
New Hampshire Gov. John Lynch (D) signs legislation legalizing same-sex marriage. The law takes effect Jan. 1, 2010. (June 3)
Thirty-six states have statutes on the books prohibiting gay marriage, including some that also have constitutional bans. Only three states – New York, Rhode Island and New Mexico – have taken no action in either direction.
Further change is possible in 2009. In April 2009, New York Gov. David Paterson (D) proposed a bill to legalize gay marriage, following his 2008 decision that the state would recognize same-sex marriages performed out-of-state. In New Jersey and the District of Columbia, prominent lawmakers support moving from marriage alternatives to full marriage rights.
In 1996, then-President Bill Clinton signed the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) , codifying states’ rights to decide whether to allow or ban same-sex marriage and defining marriage as a union between a man and a woman for federal purposes, such as claiming tax breaks for spouses and receiving deceased partners’ Social Security benefits. The law also spelled out a state’s right to refuse to recognize gay marriages performed in other states.
During George W. Bush’s presidency, Congress tried twice but failed to muster the necessary votes to amend the U.S. Constitution to prohibit gay marriage. President Barack Obama and many in Congress have staked out a middle ground on the issue, recommending states adopt marriage alternatives, but so far, no one on Capitol Hill has proposed a change in federal marriage laws.
Congressional attitudes toward gay marriage could be tested, however, by a District of Columbia plan to recognize out-of-state same-sex marriages. Congress must approve all bills affecting the U.S. capital city. D.C. also may consider a measure to legalize same-sex marriage.
In this 50-state rundown, Stateline.org maps the state of play in all 50 states, including landmark court decisions, voter referendums, state legislation and federal and international laws.
History Of State Bans
Massachusetts’ historic 2003 high court ruling finding it unconstitutional to deny same-sex couples the right to marry touched off the current political frenzy over the issue. But the first leap toward recognizing gay marriage rights came in 1993, when Hawaii’s Supreme Court sided with a same-sex couple.
Rather than risk a high court order to recognize gay marriages, Hawaiian voters in 1998 rewrote their state constitution to give lawmakers, not the courts, the right to define marriage, and lawmakers subsequently voted to prohibit gay nuptials.
The Hawaii case sparked action in Congress, resulting in then-President Bill Clinton signing the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) in 1996.
Three states soon adopted constitutional marriage bans: Alaska (1998), Nebraska (2000) and Nevada (2000). And 42 states enacted statutes similar to the federal DOMA, although three of those laws have since been overturned.
After Massachusetts’ 2003 court ruling, statutory bans were seen as providing limited protection because judges could throw out the laws if they violated state constitutional rights. As a result, voters in 13 states in 2004 rushed to rewrite their constitutions to limit marriage to heterosexuals. Two more states passed constitutional bans on gay marriage in 2005 and eight more in 2006. Arizona in 2006 became the first and only state to reject a ballot initiative to ban same-sex marriage, but voted in favor of a ban in 2008. California and Florida approved constitutional bans in 2008.
Court Decisions And Pending Cases
As with many U.S. civil rights issues, courts have held the keys to marriage rights for homosexual couples. Only Vermont has enacted a statute legalizing same-sex matrimony, although California lawmakers in 2005 and 2006 passed bills that Republican Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger vetoed.
Iowa’s court decision in April 2009 mirrors those in Massachusetts (2003), California (2008) and Connecticut (2008), which ruled marriage between two people of the same sex was a guaranteed civil right.
But high courts in Maryland (2007), New York (2006) and Washington state (2006) have taken the opposite position, ruling against gay couples’ claims that matrimony is a state right. Two other courts, New Jersey (2006) and Vermont (1999), ruled that same-sex couples have the right to the benefits of marriage, but not the title.
Pending, is a federal court case filed in Massachusetts in March 2009, seeking federal marriage rights – including the marriage tax break and Social Security benefits – for couples who wed in states that allow it. Also pending is a federal case filed in San Francisco in May 2009, seeking to overturn California’s Proposition 8 under equal rights protections in the U.S. Constitution.
Where Same-Sex Marriage Is Legal
Street celebrations marked the first same-sex weddings when Massachusetts began performing gay nuptials on May 17, 2004. On Feb. 10, 2004, San Francisco Mayor Gavin Newsome began performing same-sex marriages, and officials in Sandoval County, N.M., and New Paltz, N.Y., followed his lead – although courts later ruled those marriages invalid.
On June 16, 2008, California began issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples, following a May 15, 2008, high court decision. According to the University of California Los Angeles Law School, about 18,000 couples married before the decision was struck down by voters on Election Day 2008, and the state’s high court has ruled their marriages are valid.
Connecticut began granting marriage certificates to spouses of the same gender Nov. 12, 2008, under an Oct.10, 2008, court decision. Iowa’s high court ruled in favor of same-sex marriages April 3, 2009, and marriages were performed starting April 24.
Overriding a veto by Republican Gov. Jim Douglas, the Democratic-controlled Vermont Legislature legalized gay marriage in April 2009, and wedding licenses were slated to be issued starting Sept. 1, 2009.
On May 6, 2009, Maine Gov. John Baldacci (D) became the first governor to sign a gay marriage law without a court order compelling him to do so. Marriages will begin on or about Sept. 16, unless a voter movement to repeal the new law gathers enough signatures by Sept. 15 to put the issue on the ballot.
On June 3, 2009, New Hampshire Gov. John Lynch (D), signed a bill legalizing gay marriage and a separate bill providing legal protections for religious organizations and their employees who choose not to participate in such weddings. Marriages will begin Jan. 1, 2010.
In addition, New York’s Paterson ruled in 2008 that his state would recognize same-sex marriages performed in other states, and Rhode Island Attorney General Patrick Lynch in 2007 advised the state to honor gay marriages performed elsewhere. The District of Columbia city council also voted April 7 to recognize gay marriages performed elsewhere.
Federal Gay Marriage Policies
President Obama has said he believes that "marriage is between a man and a woman," but he voted against a proposed amendment to the U.S. Constitution to ban same-sex marriage as a U.S. senator, saying the decision should be left up to states. He said he encourages states to adopt marriage alternatives such as civil unions and domestic partnerships.
Congress tried twice – in 2004 and 2006 – but in spite of support by President Bush, the measures failed to muster the two-thirds support needed for an amendment to the U.S. Constitution to ban same-sex marriage nationwide.
Public Opinion
Meanwhile, the number of same-sex couples with marriage licenses grows. At least 18,000 couples seized a brief opportunity to marry in California in 2008, more than 12,000 have tied the knot in Massachusetts and several thousand in Connecticut.
Political and legal experts say the growing number of same-sex couples in the country will create social and ultimately political pressure toward greater liberalization of state marriage laws. New legal challenges will emerge as married same-sex couples return or relocate to states that do not recognize marriage rights.
But voters’ rejection of gay marriage in California – a social trendsetter and home to hundreds of thousands of gay couples – drove home the shortcomings in public support. While most Americans support marriage alternatives such as civil unions, a majority oppose use of the title, according to recent polls.
Forty-nine percent of Americans oppose same-sex marriage while 38 percent approve of it, according to a May 2008 national poll by the Pew Research Center for the People & the Press, which like Stateline.org is supported by The Pew Charitable Trusts. The results show a softening of attitudes toward gay marriage since a July 2004 poll by the Pew Research Center in which 56 percent opposed and 32 percent supported legal matrimony by gays and lesbians.
Civil Unions And Domestic Partnerships
Gay couples have gained greater acceptance in eight states with marriage alternatives, including domestic partnerships and civil unions: California, Connecticut, Hawaii, Maine, Nevada, New Jersey, Oregon and Washington state. Now that marriage is legal in Connecticut, New Hampshire and Vermont, civil union laws are being phased out and couples in civil unions are being converted to marriage.
First enacted by Hawaii in 1997, domestic partnerships vary in the number of benefits and responsibilities they bestow. Hawaii’s law is limited, as are laws in Maine (2004) and Nevada (2009). But California (1999), Oregon (2007) and Washington state (2009) give gay couples all of the legal rights enjoyed by heterosexual couples, including tax breaks, rights to hospital visits, approval of organ donations and inheritance without a will.
In 2000, Vermont became the first state to create an institution just short of marriage called civil unions after the state’s high court ruled gay couples must have all the rights of marriage, but not necessarily the title. In 2005, Connecticut became the first state to adopt civil unions without a court order. Also under high court orders, New Jersey adopted a civil union law in 2006, and New Hampshire adopted one in 2007.
International Laws
Outside the United States, same-sex marriage is slowly gaining ground. The Netherlands legalized gay marriage in 2001, followed by Belgium and the Canadian provinces of Ontario and British Columbia in 2003; Quebec, Canada, in 2004; Spain and all other Canadian provinces in 2005; South Africa in 2006; and Norway in June 2008. Sweden was scheduled to begin performing same-sex marriages May 1, 2009.
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